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Trust; a word everyone speaks, but few live by

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  Trust; a word everyone speaks, but few live by Author: Gouya Roshan  Distrust among individuals is a complex and multidimensional phenomenon rooted in personal experiences, social structures, and historical transformations. Human beings, as social creatures, are inevitably engaged in interaction with others; yet these interactions are often accompanied by disappointments, betrayals, misunderstandings, or inequalities, sowing seeds of doubt in both mind and heart. When trust, the very foundation of human relationships, is damaged, bonds weaken and an invisible yet profound distance forms between people. In a world where the pace of change, competition, and social pressures continue to intensify, distrust is no longer merely an individual feeling but has become a collective problem. This condition threatens not only personal relationships, but also social cohesion, cooperation, and even the broader meaning of human life itself. To address the concept of distrust is, in essence...

Winter Is the Season of Inequality

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  Winter Is the Season of Inequality Author: Goya Roshan Winter is not the same for everyone. While for some it is a time of calm, silence, and the safety of a warm home, for others it becomes the harshest test of survival. This inequality lies not in the severity of the cold, but in how it is experienced. When I look outside through the window, I cannot feel at ease. A window is not merely a pane of glass; it is a boundary between two worlds. On one side, relative security, warmth, and comfort; on the other, cold, homelessness, and fear of the night. This simple contrast challenges the human conscience. Winter is the hardest season for the poor, not because it is colder than other seasons, but because it exposes accumulated deprivation. The lack of safe shelter, warm clothing, or heating turns cold from a natural phenomenon into a disabling suffering. Under such conditions, poverty is no longer just a lack of income; it is the loss of security, health, and human dignity. What peop...

Aggression and Egocentrism: The Failure Triangle of Modern Politicians

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Aggression and Egocentrism: The Failure Triangle of Modern Politicians Author:  Goya Roshan When great politicians hold power, they face two paths before them: listening and exercising patience, or choosing aggression and egocentrism. Contemporary experience shows that those who choose the latter path, even if they are talented, endanger both themselves and their countries. Clear examples of this style can be seen in Donald Trump and Recep Tayyip Erdoğan. Despite being fully aware of the importance of relations with allies, Trump has repeatedly demonstrated through his harsh rhetoric and verbal attacks against Canada, Mexico, and even Germany on the international stage that his priority is displays of power and attracting media attention. During the period of trade tariffs, even when the U.S. economy needed cooperation with Canada and China, his hasty decisions created anxiety among companies and led to the loss of some moderate support within his voter base. This example illustrat...

An Inner Boundary for Remaining Human

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  An Inner Boundary for Remaining Human Author: Gouya Roshan  In a world where judgment and humiliation happen very quickly, being human is difficult. Many of us highlight the flaws of others and overlook our own. But what if, before every judgment, we looked inward? What if we were reminded that our own flaws and sins might be greater than all others? This article is an experience of a way of life: a method I have lived with for years and that has kept my path illuminated. For years, whenever I enter a gathering, before thinking about the flaws of others, I tell myself: perhaps my flaws and sins are greater than everyone else’s. Not to humiliate myself or out of fear, but to prevent crossing a boundary called judgment, humiliation, or discrimination. This inner reminder has not distanced me from life or made me hopeless; rather, it has been a light that has kept my path clear. With this perspective, I have been able to interact with others without judgment or a sense of super...

What Is Honor?

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  What Is Honor? Author: Gouya Roshan In many traditional societies, a man’s value and identity are tied to his control over the women in his family. Over time,  honor  has been transformed into a sexualized concept imposed on women, rather than a reflection of truth, humanity, integrity, and responsibility. Of course, this perception differs in Western societies, where social pressure is generally less intense. However, if we consider the following, it becomes clear that this sensitivity often stems from inner anxiety and insecurity: a lack of self-confidence, fear of social judgment, or low self-esteem. Instead of cultivating intrinsic values, individuals cling to superficial perceptions and the control of others. In some societies, people do not hold this view out of personal conviction, but out of fear of what others might say. As a result, honor becomes something defined by others, not by one’s own conscience. At times, instead of being a genuine moral value, honor i...

‏Reconsidering Human Value in the Contemporary Materialistic World

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Reconsidering Human Value in the Contemporary Materialistic World Author: Goya Roshan (Guya Aydın ) Reconsidering Human Value in the Contemporary Materialistic World In contemporary societies, money and material possessions have become dominant criteria for evaluating individuals. The central position that wealth occupies in collective consciousness has gradually marginalized fundamental values such as morality, honesty, empathy, and the qualitative depth of human relationships. Within this framework, interpersonal relations, particularly family ties and friendships, are increasingly shaped not by trust and emotional intimacy but by economic status and external indicators of success. As a consequence, individuals who may lack substantial material resources yet possess significant intellectual and ethical competence are frequently rendered invisible. In contrast to this reductionist value system, there exist individuals who, despite financial constraints, experience life through depth, ...

True Modernity: Human Dignity Beyond Race, Culture, and Technology

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True Modernity: Human Dignity Beyond Race, Culture, and Technology Author: Gouya Roshan (Güya Aydın) Racial discrimination is irrational and inhumane, because skin color is merely the result of genetic differences and adaptation to different environments; it is not an indicator of superior or inferior value, intelligence, morality, or humanity. From a human and ethical (as well as religious) perspective, human dignity is equal for everyone because we all come from the same Creator. Judgments based on skin color reflect fear, ignorance, historical prejudice, and sometimes a desire for superiority, rather than truth. Often, such judgments are learned in childhood through culture or incorrect social narratives and unfortunately remain unquestioned. Questioning and empathy are the first steps toward breaking this cycle. In many Western societies, such as the United States, Canada, and European countries, there are individuals who consider themselves “modern” or “progressive,” and this perc...